Comments on: My Ex’s Face http://www.moesey.com/2010/04/my-exs-face/ Read me. I'm fabulous. Or at least that's what they tell me. Sun, 06 Mar 2011 16:23:37 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 By: moesey http://www.moesey.com/2010/04/my-exs-face/comment-page-1/#comment-519 moesey Wed, 05 May 2010 13:08:32 +0000 http://www.moesey.com/?p=593#comment-519 Thank you everyone for the wonderful comments! It makes me want to bring out more of my thoughts in writing. To make things clear to the internet, my ex, his lawyer, and anyone else who may be interested: there will be NO toilet papering of his house. None. Not by me. Or by anyone I may hire. Or beg. And @ phoenixsong, this streams to facebook. Take a peek at my page and you'll see the posts there. Thank you everyone for the wonderful comments! It makes me want to bring out more of my thoughts in writing. To make things clear to the internet, my ex, his lawyer, and anyone else who may be interested: there will be NO toilet papering of his house. None. Not by me. Or by anyone I may hire. Or beg. And @ phoenixsong, this streams to facebook. Take a peek at my page and you’ll see the posts there.

]]> By: pheonixsong http://www.moesey.com/2010/04/my-exs-face/comment-page-1/#comment-451 pheonixsong Sat, 24 Apr 2010 16:07:41 +0000 http://www.moesey.com/?p=593#comment-451 I'm glad to see you're posting again. Just make sure to announce it on FB next time! Looking forward to more face slashing insights and we should totally TP his house next devils night. I’m glad to see you’re posting again. Just make sure to announce it on FB next time! Looking forward to more face slashing insights and we should totally TP his house next devils night.

]]> By: Anne Alagna http://www.moesey.com/2010/04/my-exs-face/comment-page-1/#comment-411 Anne Alagna Tue, 20 Apr 2010 00:07:33 +0000 http://www.moesey.com/?p=593#comment-411 I found this through your FB, we went to CHS together. I completely understand what you are feeling. I, too, prefer to erase my ex completely out of their pasts, since he has erased himself out of their lives since the late 90s. I would love to rip up the photos, photo shop in my current, wonderful husband, who accepted my children (as toddlers) and has always been their Daddy. I would love to explode the fact that we were ever married, but then I remember that those girls, women, now, never would have been, if it werent for him, and I pause, mid-rip, and embrace the girls. It is so difficult to walk away and not allow yourself to give in to the hatred, the agony, the dissappointment... but if you do give in, the ex wins, somehow, they win... and when you continue to live, happy and free, that is when you win. HUGS!! I found this through your FB, we went to CHS together.

I completely understand what you are feeling. I, too, prefer to erase my ex completely out of their pasts, since he has erased himself out of their lives since the late 90s. I would love to rip up the photos, photo shop in my current, wonderful husband, who accepted my children (as toddlers) and has always been their Daddy. I would love to explode the fact that we were ever married, but then I remember that those girls, women, now, never would have been, if it werent for him, and I pause, mid-rip, and embrace the girls. It is so difficult to walk away and not allow yourself to give in to the hatred, the agony, the dissappointment… but if you do give in, the ex wins, somehow, they win… and when you continue to live, happy and free, that is when you win. HUGS!!

]]> By: Erika http://www.moesey.com/2010/04/my-exs-face/comment-page-1/#comment-410 Erika Mon, 19 Apr 2010 23:20:47 +0000 http://www.moesey.com/?p=593#comment-410 Heather, this is amazingly well-said. And you're right to put your ex's pic in the book, as abhorrent as it feels. Some day, each of your children will come to terms with who mom is and who dad is, and they will come to form their own conclusions. Putting those pix in the book is a love letter to your children. It's saying, "I love ALL of you." I wish you had been MY parent!!! Heather, this is amazingly well-said. And you’re right to put your ex’s pic in the book, as abhorrent as it feels. Some day, each of your children will come to terms with who mom is and who dad is, and they will come to form their own conclusions.

Putting those pix in the book is a love letter to your children. It’s saying, “I love ALL of you.” I wish you had been MY parent!!!

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